In a relationship everyone has come across different situations. A situation which is painful for some may not be the same for others. Also, those relationships which we can’t put into any category , which only gives you miss signals like the person shows you at times you are important to them , they want to be a part of your life as they move around you from morning to night. And next very moment that person also says he has no feelings for you or they can only be friends. This is one of the dangerous ones too..stay away from this kind of person too. To know a person better, start a deep conversations with him and you will realize how fast that person is detaching themselves from you..try it..Ab flirt to har kayi kar leta hain..if you are a serious person and not in any state to make new friends to only flirt with just try it.
Now , if you are cheated in a relationship I think you better know what you have to do next. Confront the person, if you want and if you don’t just cut him totally from your life. Also it will take time to heal you from that pain which with time you will definitely overcome. Indulge yourself into the things that make you happy , spend more time with family and frinds. The bad time will pass..a break up is not always bad.. It actually indicates that the worst moment of your life has finally ended and now you will embrace only the best, learn from the mistakes and be the best version of yourself. I know it’s easy for me to write this up..but that’s not the truth, I have come across all these situations once . I was also there at some point but here I am now..moving only forward.
Now I will tell you the last one which is the worst amongst all..the situation where your partner never cheated you, from this side no one can be the best than them. But , still….with time you will realize you feel lonely though you are in a relationship. Isn’t it scary? Everyday you wake up thinking what should I do today so that we don’t fight today on small things. What should I wear today while going on a date which doesn’t embrace him in front of others. When you try to start a conversation, but you with time afraid as the end will be only vulnerable because those long messages you wrote to them to understand your side of story is nothing but a joke for them on which they make fun of in front of your mutual friends. But those were not jokes , they were your emotions. With time you will become someone who doesn’t talk about anything when you meet your loved ones but when you come home you will write them only long messages. Why? because that person never lets you express yourself when you are with them. it seems everything should be right according to them. Those attention seekers are nothing but they possess the quality of being narcissistic. Once you recognize it..I suggest you run away. Yes, take some time off and analyze the whole thing.. These types of people will first do anything to have you in your life..and once they realize you are totally into them they will treat you the way they want. Which includes most of you will start doubting yourself, depression, anxiety, also it will stop your growth internally and you will become a materialistic person who is only busy in pleasing their partner. So, before losing yourself completely over someone who doesn’t value you, blame you for every small thing, treat you like the way they want – remember that person is a total red flag. I know you will be confused as you are confined with all those good memories of that person, so letting go will be the hardest hoping one day things may fall into its place. But it’s not….these kind of people never change, not for you at least. So, take the boldest decision and make it count, take a stand for yourself. A relationship should always be from both sides,it’s not a one person’s task to carry forward. So…walking out from a situation where you have lost yourself fully is the best decision so far.
With time, you will meet the person you dreamed off..only the important thing is you should know to identify what is harming your self confidence. Once you ace it , nobody will be able to stop you from reaching the position you want to be. Best wishes…❤️