Why is it that every girl has to take her own responsibility after marriage? It’s not the same with her husband. His parents are there to take care of everything for him.
She carries the burden of everyone’s responsibilities after marriage, but why can’t everyone collectively share the responsibility of that one girl? As much right as she has to say anything to her parents, why can’t she say the same to her in-laws?
What kind of life is this, where she has to take care of her own food, wash her own clothes, buy her own groceries, take care of herself, and also take care of everyone else alongside her?
Why should we do all this? We are not servants. Why do we have to live in fear all the time? Whoever started these practices, why have they relegated women to such low positions? If ever we are unwell, there’s no one to care for us.
Now, it’s ultimately the husband’s responsibility to take care of the wife. Why do we still hope for all this? Two years ago, my mother-in law had so much trouble even providing me breakfast, so how can I believe that she will take care of everything now?
It bothers me when my mother scolds me, tries to explain things to me, even though I’m managing everything after coming home from the office. The person who doesn’t say anything but keeps it in their mind, it all shows on their face. I completely understands what she must be thinking about me in that moment…