We all have that one phase in life when the most trusted one betrays you, and you end up in thought-of-question mode. The question like ” why he/she did it?”, “I DID EVERYTHING TO MAKE HIM/HER HAPPY”, and then a curseful vengeance lingers down, some might end it by calling it a lesson, while some curse the person to death and some try to conspire against them.
Whatever the path you choose, that moment is a moment that will stay on your mind for quite some time but have you guys ever thought of the other person, why did they took that step. Yes, we can accuse them of pursuing self-interest, but is this all in their mind to break your precious trust.
Because mind you, he/she may achieve something right now, but will eternally lose you. Are they (the ones who you had called your buddies) really always blinded by their self-interests. Because of course, they might be much worse than what you are anticipating, but without considering their point you are just putting a burden on them too.
Let’s say it was all for naught, in reality, all of this is just a misunderstanding, hmmmmm really misunderstanding….. yes a misunderstanding, it is crucial to understand it between the buddies, of course, the tough conversation will be on way, but one has to choose what is tough losing your friend or holding to the soothing feeling that you get by avoiding any tough task.
But one should be careful, as no one knows what kind of fangs lie behind eagle feathers, the one common source of misunderstanding is the inclusion of 3rd person between you and your friend, and what a simple thing we can do to clear misunderstanding, just remove the 3rd person.
I wish the world would be so simple for a simpleton like me, but in reality, it is complex much more than I can comprehend, even much more than god has anticipated, but whatever. Sometimes the source or the 3rd person is so important to anyone that it can just deny your right to express yourself in front of another person.
Let’s complicate and simplify the matter with an example, I bet many of you guys have watched a Hindi movie called ‘SONU KE TITU KI SWEETY’ of course it was fiction but the climax was where we realized that the bond of friendship is being replaced by marriage bond and that too destructively.
Suppose it is the one male friend who became a common friend of a couple, later on the verge of parting couple’s friend tries his best to keep them together, however, that creates a misunderstanding between other one, while the former returns and blames the common friend for their almost verge parting, what should that boy do?
At this moment I remember on quote by Buddha, if you like a flower you want it to be with you but if you love the flower you want to keep it under the sun with a plant so that it lives on.
Maybe that was going on with me when I said I just want them together even though I am the villain in their story, but ultimately it is a bliss to villains that male and female lead are together.