What is a perfect relationship?
You must have come across this question multiple times but have you yet found an answer to it? I am sure, you have not.
Do you share a relationship with yourself? Majority, don’t.
It’s impossible to understand yourself all at once but we always demand understanding from others. Is it fair?
To be honest, we don’t even realise these questions until someday we stumble upon them. Relationships are responsibilities that can sometimes turn into boons in tough situations while other times they turn into burdens. No matter who you’re dealing with, or what relationship you share with them, it is not a cakewalk. There must be days when you seek space from the most supportive person in your life.
Even the most perfect relations face difficulties one can only imagine. You end up feeling hopeless and no amount of comfort seems to fix your problem. Then what to do?
Well, the answer to that question is analysis. Try not to jump to conclusions. Because 90% of the problems get fixed when you accept your partner the way they are and stop burdening them with your expectations. A change can never be sudden. It comes with adjustments, patience and persistence, not stubbornness.
There will be days when your partner would seem like a pile of imperfections. But are those imperfections worth the attention you’re giving? Or the person they are despite their flaws is more valuable? You have to understand that what can be let go, let it go! Understand the vibe before initiating distasteful discussions and make sure to never hamper your partner’s respect no matter what.
The most important thing, guard what’s good in your life. Try to always work in the favor of your relationship. There can never be a manual that can fix all your dilemmas but what will always prevail over problems is your intent to stay with that person. All the best!