We belive in famous saying ‘First impression is the last one’ but what if you find all together diverse personalities of mine after switching of people and place around me ? Then one will surely put up an alligation of being ‘double faced’. But in today’s world we all are facing the same situation,we all can be considered as ‘fake’ in some or the other way as it is not possible to carry the real personality everywhere. The main suffering with this syndrome is today’s generation commonly called Gen-Zs whose foundation is to impress and attract people.
My personality changes according to the environment. I am a quiet, decent, mature daughter in front of family. A craziest, immature, outspoken in front of close buddies. A studious, serious, disciplined student for my teachers. A furious, strict personality for my lil siblings and many more adjectives can be integrated in my personalities.
Reason of confusion!
A growing kid tends to learn various kind of technique to keep his surroundings happy irrespective of the inner desire. We have been taught to be a civilised citizen all our school life, family wants a perfect kid for their future support, friends desire to have cool companion, boss demands an emotionless self sacrificing workers. The boundaries of these expectation makes the real human personality fall apart into pieces. We keep on impressing others according to their requirement all our life. Even we try hard, we can’t be real in the world full of fakeness.
“Our personalities are the reflection of what world desires from us”.