When will we consider divorce as normal as marriage? If we look at history and every religious faith, there are provisions for divorce as well as marriage. The option of divorce is given to us so that problems in marriages can be sorted out in their final state when there is no other option. Divorces are made so that the couple, if they can’t live or sustain themselves with each other, can separate their ways and live their given life with no worries and increase their productivity.
Society’s Ill Behavior
Unfortunately, our society has made it difficult and unacceptable for the couples.Specifically in the context of girls.They underestimate and backbite behind, like “Iski hi ghalati hogi (somewhere it is her fault) if you are a divorcee, and more importantly, you are a girl. If we see, there could be many reasons of divorces. Couples are also humans they can disagree with each other and be unhappy with each other; it’s human nature. Who are we to judge them?
Data On Divorces In Developing Countries
If we look at the data on divorces, we see that developed countries have a higher number of divorces than developing countries.In India, the divorce rate is less than 1 percent. Out of 1000 marriages, only 13 result in divorce. The low divorce rate is because of societal pressure on families, specifically under-arranged marriages. If someone asks for divorce, they’re usually shamed for going against the rules, culture, family, and parents.
Impact On Daughters
If we behave so, what will be the future of daughters who are suffering toxic relationships with their in-laws and husbands? What impact will we have on their mental health? How can we give those daughters confidence to make their decisions? How can we assure them of a better future? How can we make them proud to be girls? Do we seriously take it easy?
Impact On The New Generation
Actually, our unacceptable attitudes not only impact those girls, but we are closing the doors after doing such things for our own new generation too. Our daughters spend their lives feeling guilt after divorce every time, as they are only responsible for such acts.
What Needs To Change?
- Support systems, including legal and social structures, should be in place to protect the rights and well-being of individuals going through divorce. This includes providing emotional and financial support to those who may face challenges during or after divorce.
- Empowerment of women needs to make their own decisions, fostering a culture of respect and equality in relationships, and challenging harmful stereotypes are essential steps toward normalizing divorce.
It’s crucial for the society to evolve and create a more inclusive and accepting environment that respects individual choices and decisions, including marriages and divorces.