The word “family” has been given a great responsibility in our society. Family plays a very crucial role in our lives, and more or less everyone needs family at some point in their lives. For me, family is something that supports you, celebrates your success, and is there for you in your hard times. And in our Indian culture, we consider everyone one of our family members, as you can understand with the famous words “वसुधैव कुटुंबकम” .
But the problem is why everyone is bothered by their family and why we often hear everyone saying negative things about their family, how they get humiliated by their family, and how family creates chaos in their lives. This has become a stereotype in our society, as everyone is the victim of their relatives and family. In every family, there is a relative who knows everything and every field, a relative who’s a cheater and scammer, a relative who is jealous of everything, and a relative who’s like the villain of a daily soap and in every individual’s story, they are victims of all of them . More or less, this is a fact.
Now the matter is: what’s the solution? Since you can’t change everyone, you can just start changing yourself. You can focus on yourself, your life, and your close ones. And more importantly, you should stop imagining yourself as a victim, because you are not always a victim, and you should listen to the stories of other sides. If something is bothering you, you should talk to them. You must stop focusing on toxic people and just wipe them out of your life.
Because you must be changed to make a change!