Are consensual living in relationships a sin or shame for a society suppressing and sentencing it to an approval with the jury still out. It may not look rationally rational but morally rational with both getting a fair sense of each other’s pursuits and preferences a conservative and hierarchical social set up and system like the one we have here makes it equally challenging and competitive with such alliances not standing test of time as living in may provide a cushion to millennials turning as conscious consumerist admirers who no nothing but perks, privileges and premium of a lifestyle candidly celebrated with a joy and ecstasy of a certain kind and class. But, a living in can’t succeed marriage filled with a crass of civilization and a conflict and clash of ambitions and aspirations hard to bridge and concile it can’t be an escape route to something which has been quite pious and sacrosanct for a country like India where relationships between people are not only a physical union but a one involving their hearts, minds and emotions. Fundamentally to me living ins have some in built flaws resulting in anxieties, despair, stress and depressions prominently in metros and cosmopolitans where dating apps etc are trapping us into illusions and a fallacy satiating and arousing our pride and pleasure. Who knows if a Shraddha Walkar actually paid a price for it ? As a youth we need to broach this one before ourselves for critical self reflection, realisation and assessment whom should be held accountable if not for the guilt staring us at our face