Everyone wants respect from their child, but do you ever think about a child’s respect? Many teachers insult their students and expect respect from them.
Honestly, according to me, it’s not possible to achieve respect by insulting someone because everyone has self-respect. Children also have self-respect, therefore, never insult anyone. It is seen that many children leave home or hurt themselves because of their family members’ misbehaviour.
If you don’t respect your children no one will respect them. Respect gives huge confidence to children. Many students have good qualities but they fail because they don’t get respect and support from their families.
In many families, we see many parents feel proud after scolding their children. It’s a very bad thing in India that parents feel proud that their children are scared. Parent’s feels proud that their children are scared of their rude behaviour.
But it’s wrong, a parent should respect their child but a good parent makes their child open-minded and always behave like a friend to them. We can save many children’s life and career by respecting their vision, respecting their dreams, respecting their choice.
We can save a child’s career just by giving the right direction to their passion. Our child deserves our support. Many parent’s have dreams. As a parent, it’s our responsibility to support our child’s dream.
And give all efforts to help them in that journey to achieve their goal because it’s not enough to give good education to your child, it’s also important to support their dream and give your child protection against all negative voices.
It’s also important to support their dream. If you want to be a good parent’s and if you expect love and respect from your child then first you should respect your child.
When I was in my college I wanted to become a social worker. I told to my parents and they started scolding me. They said, “Look at our situation we are not rich enough to handle our daily life problems and you want to become a social worker. Beta, you are not able to help us survive.”
I felt that it was not possible to achieve my dream but after sometime my mom told me that I have one way to achieve this dream. “Work hard and achieve an amazing career first, then you will have money and power. After that, you will be able to help others.”
Since that day I am working very hard to achieve my dream.