What is the meaning of the word ‘people’?
According to the dictionary, the term ‘people’ means human beings in general. They are the ones who breathe but won’t let you live. They are the most problematic beings. They believe in dreams but won’t let you dream. They are firm believers of sanskaar, but when it comes to their sanskaar, it is only limited to the art of making their kids puppets. The ‘P’ in people stands for this.
They are addicted to nurturing in a way that will only lead to productivity (sexually). Their ultimate goal is to get the significant people around them to marry (because only then can they be considered independent). Being financially independent will only give you mental satisfaction because then you are free to go out and breathe. However, still, you will be dependent on ‘the people’ for other permission related matters. These people are very complex beings who can never believe in the concept of ‘live and let live’.
What do people actually say?
People’s noses are always equivalent to that of a dog’s nose. This is because they have a habit of letting that in-between others matters. They are interested in the life of others because they can’t have a life of their own. They are always envious that they end up keeping an eye on them. Let us see some examples of those everyday things happening in day to day life:
- “Ladka or ladki saath me? Haww, pakka girlfriend boyfriend honge.”
- “Itni choti dress, sharam he nahi hai.”
- “Ladkiyon ke liye school teacher ki job best rehti hai, subah kaam dopahar tak ghar.”
- “Humse behes karne ke zaroorat nahi hai”
Do these opinions matter?
A better way of terming these ‘opinions’ is ‘gossip’. Gossip is a dangerous disease. Many around us are affected by it. These gossips are often disguised as clues that are unravelled by the CID or any crime branch. The people become creative heads and dig deep. These opinions matters to those who themselves love judging people. These opinions are nothing but those tiny atom bombs that add to any human beings low esteem, low confidence, sad moods, disturbed mental peace, suicidal thoughts, etc. These are nothing but making lower their confidence that may help them be successful being.
These opinions shouldn’t matter at all. One needs to understand that change begins with you, don’t judge anyone. Let people breathe. Let people live. Let the freedom to live, write, express remain. On the one hand, people say, “You are a writer, that’s good“, but on the other hand, they are the only ones saying, “Don’t write such topics that are not ethical“. The world is full of hypocrisy. The biggest hypocrisy is that these people love the song:
“Kuchh to log kahenge, logon ka kaam hai kehna, chhoro bekaar ki baaton mein, kaheen beet na jaaye raina.”
By R.D Burman
- Result of ‘log kya kahenge’?
- People unable to pursue their passion,
- Lowering of self-esteem,
- Heartbreaks result in a human-like puppet,
- Mental illness,
- Youth overthinking, hence depression,
- Hesitation to even take a small healthy step towards their bright future.
We must understand others’ feelings. We must respect others private space. Judging us easy, saying ye mat karo log dekhenge is easy, but it is harrowing to whom it is said. Not painful because it is restrictive but is illogical. If we think about that, what will people say when our existence is lost?