This pandemic has surely changed many things around us but the important point of discussion is how many mental changes are there with us in this pandemic. We all likely to face this kind of changes in ourselves only.
And love is considered one of the most important factor when we talk about things that every human needs, like who doesn’t want love? I always believe that the world only survives till love is there, without love nothing can be sustained.
A relationship is sometimes what we all need somewhere in our life because this kind of love is something that we choose and we decide to be. This kind of love needs extra care than anything because unknown people came together, try to know each other and then fall in love is something that’s very beautiful and cannot be expressed easily in words.
I am a believer in true love, but this lockdown situation may force you to do some changes in your love life. Many of you have to get dispatched for some time because we all are locked in our home. But let’s not lie, we all try to balance everything including our love, for this, we do many sacrifices too. Working from home, spend time at home, get to complete deadlines and then also take off some time for our love to talk to them on video calls, chats and many ways of social media.
We all also try to celebrate birthdays, festivals and many other special celebrations online to connect with each other and try to spend as much time as we can. But it is not easy, everyone’s journey is different and we don’t know who is going through from which phase of life. So it’s okay that many problems occur. Might your relation in the situation of broken too.
But the important thing to try best from your side. It is never easy to handle things with utmost perfection. So it’s okay if you feel low sometimes and feel not to talk. Say to each other what you exactly feel and it’s really important to maintain a beautiful relationship.
Covid makes us physically and mentally fall but it’s our responsibility to understand ourselves and others in this hard period.
I personally that giving space to each other, makes things better and better. Try to be in a relationship but with less connection. Try each that’s it’s okay if you are busy, it’s okay if you spending time with family, it’s okay to take some time for your own. That helps you both to maintain better relation.
Secondly, talking about everything you do is important. From the above point, I show that it’s important to give space but it’s wrong to completely disconnect yourself from others. Talk as much you can, it feels better, talk about your goods and bad, talk about the moment you spend together, talk about the current scenario and whatever not. Talking breaks the barrier.
And the last and important thing to notice, to motivate each other and try to build trust. I think trust is most important thing in a relationship. If you just came into a relationship, build trust and give trust. That important!
So, my readers, I hope you get some amazing things to learn and understand.
This pandemic is not going to easy for any of us, but what matters that how we handle all our relations with love and support.
Love,
Vaishnavi