Doesn’t the topic sound interesting? You all must be expecting me to write a complex formula that will probably blend your life, or some filmy dialogues that might cheer you up.
But you will be happy to know that whatever I have shared in my content, has been applied to myself and the results have been quite surprising.
Laugh At Yourself
The very first step is to remember the fact that no one is a better comedian than you are. This will make you wonder if that is even possible. To answer this question, I will say, does anyone else, apart from you, know the facts that make you laugh? No one, right? We already know how to keep ourselves happy, but we seldom do that. Start laughing at your own jokes, messages, and your mistakes.
When you try to recollect all such sweet, funny moments of your life, that you think would make you smile, those few minutes take you back in time, away from this materialistic world into a virtual world, which carries only sweet moments of your life.
Create your own world
Start interacting with yourself. Most of us might worry over the thought of someone others us mad. But is there anything more important than our own happiness? Well, few say society and family are, but here, I would like to say that if you cannot keep yourself happy, then how can you keep others happy.
One Last Simple Advice
Start laughing at your own mistake. Baat filmi zarur hai lekin sachi hai. (This might sound filmy but it is the truth). Can we ever undo our mistake? No, right? We can only rectify it. Then why should we spend time feeling sad about them? Instead, let’s acknowledge the fact that we, at least, got to know what went wrong, the realization of which, in the future can perhaps become the reason for our success.
Let me give you an example so that you can relate to the scenario. A student of standard 9 asked me how he could stay happy after making silly mistakes in his exam. I just asked him to talk to himself positively in a situation like that, and be thankful for the fact that the mistake made was only a small one, and that the next time, his teacher will not be able to deduct marks as he had figured out his problems on his own, that he will now resolve them and prove himself to be the best.
Some people say that money can buy happiness. Although, money is very important, there is no market where you can buy happiness. We can get money from a bank, but not happiness. The path where you find happiness, only leads you to success.
Start singing like mad, dance, do whatever that keeps you happy.
If possible, close your eyes and try to recollect all such funny incidents of your life which make you happy. Many a time, we may fail to recollect those moments because of some clouds of uncertainty that keep hovering over our memories. In such a moment, try listening to songs that you like, or try talking to people who are not judgemental, who listen and understand whatever you share with them. They can be your parents your friends, your teachers or any other person.