I’m quite amused by the idea of “purity”, the idea that there are two kinds of girls – one good for marriage and another for fucking!
But How does this Definition work ?
In general ‘modern’ men believe the ‘modern’ girls are ‘disgusting sluts’ who deserve to be taken advantage of, so if you manage to find a ‘good girl’ (ideally by grooming her from childhood), you should legally imprison her in your home before some other dude snatches ‘your’ prize. You can always cheat on her later when she gets ‘boring’, which she definitely will because she’s not a person, she’s just a vagina. This is the mindset of the men in the 21st century.
We internalized the things that had been taught all our lives: that the value of a girl is connected to her “purity”, that a girl without value has no reason to live, and, more obliquely, that her life and her body aren’t really her own anyway. So what was the point? Why live? Why fight? I know plenty of progressive, liberal, adult men who openly say they’re looking for a “good girl”—who prioritize some paternalistic illusion of “self-respect” over personality and chemistry. 
Okay, to all the men out there who think that way, why do you feel like you want/need/deserve to settle down with a “pure girl”?? Well, I’m genuinely asking??
Oh, just because I’m pure never been into relationship or slut are gross .
Too vague ahh
Well, their vagina are real streched out and big or probably they have bunch of disease .
Easy fix! Setting aside the fact that plenty of women contract STIs from monogamous partners or during “safe sex,” it sounds like your real problem here is with illness, not sex. So I assume you’d be fine dating a promiscuous woman who practiced safe sex and happened to be STI-free?
No, because I want a girl who’s traditional and family-oriented.”
Having sex doesn’t mean you don’t want to have a family. It just means that you want to have sex.
What men believes in terms of marriage that girls are a piece of chewing gum once chewed it worth nothing!!!
Men can’t actually care whether or not women are “pure,” because there is no way for “purity” to be verified. It’s just not a real thing, and chasing some phantom virtue for your entire life is a great way to ensure that you waste your goddamn life.
“I just can’t stand the thought of her getting fucked by all those other guys.”
So you’re about to have sex with a woman you’re attracted to, you really want to have sex with her, but all you can think about is her getting pounded by tons and tons of dicks? That sounds like an entirely different issue.
“No! I just mean that I struggle with the same powerlessness and insecurity that all human beings do, so as a coping mechanism I take advantage of our culture’s patriarchal power structure and exorcize my feelings of worthlessness by perpetuating shame-based proprietary attitudes over women’s bodies. Basically I’m obsessed with controlling women’s lives because I can’t control my own.”