This is a real story of a soldier who loved his wife a lot, and in return got only cheating by his wife.
It’s my own story. I was working in Indian Air Force survived with mother father wife and two kids. I retired at age of 38 yrs from defence after completing 20 yrs of regular service. For sake of my old age parents,wife and better studies of my children taking all privilege given to ex servicemen. And thought I will stay with my parents and start cultivation as I have so much of ancestral farming land. My wife was working in school as Vice principle and is MSc-BEd so thinks she is too much qualified. As I planned my new inning with cultivation I kept my wife and kids at my father home in patna but unfortunately my mom and wife coordination collapsed within 06 months after my arrival to patna. Then my wife decided to shift in rented house away from my parent’s home, literally I thought as my wife may be cool down after shifting from my parents house so i do agree to shift. She is very aggressive and always we had quarrel between us as i was taking alcohol in weekends, after shifting from my house I thought all will be good now but instead of getting good situation become more difficult because I never think that we are shifting near to her parents house. When I was 18 yrs old I joined Indian Air Force so I was tottaly cut off from such type to thinning that what will happen if I stay near to my in law’s home. What ever my wife wishes i did except one thing that to give up liqor but its not like that i was darubaaj i used to take it in modrate way with permission of my wifeon Friday night as Saturday was my holiday. During Friday night she used to stay quit till I consume liqor but as soon as clock show 2030-2100 hrs, she starts shouting on me for consuming liqor during that period I kept my mind out of her voice but if you are under influence of liquor then you can’t keep quit for long. Then my voice get raised automatically. I tried several times that I won’t raise my voice during that period but I failed to keep my promise. And off course once we have hot conversations and staying near my in law’s home they will jump in battle field and makes situation worse. Days passed on my wife stays with my kids in separate flat and I started my farming 100 Km away from where I kids stay, time to time I visit to meet my wife and kids but no change in my wife mind. Slowly slowly we moved far away from each other. During 2016 May she was tottaly away from me and I met a lady in my daughter school and got Attracted towards her but my wife get clue and after a long fight with wife I moved on with my wife. Till now I don’t know any other lady other then my wife. I accepted my fault and engaged my self toward farming and my family. Before my shifting to patna my father was taking care of farming. So after I settled he left farming and it’s earning. Presently he mode of earning is some rent ,which comes from flat and 04 shops in patna. But still my wife and my in law’s are not happy they want share from rent also for which I denied. They make my life worst. My son is 15 yrs old now he understand the situation so he become my piller. He understand everything. Now I come to the point that why I am writing my story. Every body proved me as alcoholic which I am not and why it happened will tell you in next para.
In 2017 summer vacation we planned for Kolkata trip because same period my wife school (Her school when she was studying )reunion was planned during that period. but due to money problem my kids and my self we dropped our programme and wife went alone to Kolkata for her school reunion and enjoined a lot with her school friend’s. After her return I went back to my village and get busy with my farming. When I returned to celebrate my daughter’s birthday, one night my wife phone ring at 2345 hrs due to ring I wake up and seen my wife cutting the phone and using what’s app for messaging ,I asked her about phone she told it was wrong number and went to sleep but I was awake. As soon as I seen my wife got sleep I took out her phone and checked the call list. It was her friend phone then I checked wts app she messaged her call you tommorow. I was surprised to see this and I also got full of anger but kept my self cool because I was not having any evidence that my wife is cheating on me. The next thing I did that I downloaded a call recorder app and installed on her phone. I astonished when I checked her phone on next day. It was proven that my wife was cheating on me. But that was not enough to talk to her so continuously I kept recording her call and downloaded the conversations to my phone and listen that my wife and his friend were planning to meet each other when I will left for my village. When I got all recordings by which I can talk to her, i told her we have some issues which is to be discussed. She told go ahade then I told her to listen audios I had. I was in shock when she told it happenes between friends. I told i never listened such conversations between friends. Then she called her father and started blaming me that I am tapping her phone then I told my father in law to listen audios which he listen and told I edited this. I told them voice is her or not they told no voice is not her where as my wife is accepting her voice but my in law’s told her to come to police we will file case against him during that period my kids stand up in my support.
In short I will tell you what was there in my wife conversations they where school time friend and get more attracted during reunion because my wife being 42 yrs looks like very younger. I was not having more money but that man have. I used my whole money for my wife kids my parents and off cource her parents. When I retired I got handsome money which was for my kids but from that I have to share that money with my wife brother for his business. Due to that pressure I got heart attack in October 2016. I never spend a single penny on me except liqor but that too also banned in Bihar.its not the end of my story. If you like will write more situation like this I faced in my life.
Conclusion
Never trust blindly on any one. liberty is everybody right but keep watch of your spouse (It applied for both). The day your in law’s interfere in your life told them it’s not good and tell them to keep away from such things. Avoid stay near your in law’s house.lets it be man or woman respect each other trust each other and never broke trust