There was a old man in a village who was very popular and people use to go to him for their problems.If the problems were solved and people were satisfied he tells it is my guidance on which solved the issue ,if the problems remained unresolved he use to give it to destiny ,saying it was there in your destiny .one day a young kid came and asked if everything which goes bad or good is written in predetermined then why do we need to come to you ,let it happen whatever happens, the old man says somewhere in your destiny it is written as per his wish /effort .
we as a human being have been given the ability to think ,rationale and use our intellect to take any kind of action.despite of this we people get bewildered about what is going in and around them .whatever happens with us majority of us try to lean on someone for the so called moral support or to blame for everything which is gone wrong to someone.This kind of attitude of mankind gives opportunity to self made God man ,religious institution and off course psychological therapist as well.The very basic fundamental of many God messenger and guru’s business is to create a platform to look upon for every incident and then make people emotional fool out of it .Be it in the name of God ,religion ,superstition or any thing for that matter .People cant handle their inner self as well as the consequences of external situation and find a shelter for the convenience of everyday life .definitely somebody is going to make business out of this scenario .and we see the outcome in the form of ram rahim,zakir naik and all sort of people who are expert in exploiting this opportunity .
we must be able to understand that so called destiny is only in our hand ,the way we will act the consequences will be accordingly only.any thing which happens with us is result of two factor ,one is the action taken by us other is external people/situation etc.what action we take is 100% in our hand ,only thing is we do not know how are external things going to be.and we must stop attributing everything to our destiny .since long time our kids and youth have been taught to accept the destiny and God’s will and making them powerless .This generation has got most convenient life in terms of technology ,choices of life style and freedom of choosing their own identity.we as a parent has the duty to equip them with proper sense of responsibility for every episode of their life ,then slowly this business of religion and superstition will vanish.