So you’re aloof, isolated junk. Thats what they’re calling you these days,right? Right. Its sad the majority of people don’t understand the importance of solitude when its one of the most awesome things there are !
Here are 8 things you’ll relate to if you are one of the solitude persons who loves to be alone..
#1. Peace Of Mind
With the whole world crumbling around you, you are calm AF. Because you have a very good habit of keeping your nose out of other people’s business. And why would anyone even want to spend time and energy on other people’s problems when you got your own to take care of ? Selfish? No, its not !

#2. You have an Introvert Mind in an Extrovert Body.
You do have a happening social life. You have friends. You go to parties. You go to clubs. You go to trips and you never forget to have fun. But there’s a limit to it. You maybe Barney The Legendary Stinson of your group but all until you run out of energy. Then you absolutely need some time alone to recharge yourself and keep distance from everyone around you for awhile. All you crave for is your room, your bed, a book to read, coffee and music. You would give anything for it.

#3. You don’t get bored that easy.
That is correct, you don’t. You can’t. Unless you’re attending mathematics lecture. See, Thats the beauty of it. You’ve already learned to be happy without depending on anyone or anything. You don’t give damn about whatever the situation,You are already lost in your own imagination.

#4. You’re a natural entertainer.
And by that I don’t mean that you’re a Charlie Chaplin of your group. I mean that you are so content with yourself that you find a way to enjoy yourself instantly. You don’t need lots of fancy things to have fun and pass the time. All you need is a book and music.Thats why you set an example for those around you on how to loose a little and have fun when there’s nothing to have fun with.

#5. You love deep conversations.
Small talk is a necessity in today’s world. And its an art you have mastered on some extent. but you would rather prefer deep, meaningful conversations with that special person at 2 in the morning on a beach, than go clubbing with friends and score chicks.

#6. You are great at giving advice.
You have seen people rise up. and you have seen downfalls. You have faced your insecurities and overcame it.You have been in love. And you’ve been through heartbreaks.Countless times.Again and again.You have made mistakes in life and you have moved on. At this stage you have earned enough experience to shed a little light of advice on someone who is in need of it.

#7. You don’t want to be alone for the rest of your life.
No. None of us do. But you would rather wait for that special person than to settle on someone who don’t respect you and deserve you. You have had your share of relationships in life and you are now mature enough to know that these relationships shape up your life. In a good way or a bad way. And you would rather stay single and happy than to be with someone who is dangerous for your peace of mind.

8. You have accepted yourself just the way you are.
And you should be proud of it as you are one of the very few. Because a wise dwarf man in a brutal, unforgiving world once said, “Never forget what you are. The rest of the world will not. Wear it like armor, and it can never be used to hurt you.”

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